Why do "Black Men" put black women down when dating white women: Sell outs or Self hate?

Be honest ladies, does it really not bother you that it seems like our black men are choosing to date white women over us? Are we really letting this happen, do we have a choice? Why are so many of our black men intrigued by white skin,but yet seemed to be repulsed by our skin? I do not apologize for being the first to say this, but it is my opinion that they are weak. There, I said it! What else could it be? I think black men date white women, because they're easily to be controlled (weak), and they (black men) are intimidated, and threatened by black women. They just can't handle us. It makes me want to choke a ni$$a when he even denies that theory. Let me explain why I say this- you rarely hear a black man defend his choice to date a white woman WITHOUT putting a black woman down, magnifying her flaws, painting her as damaged goods as if white woman are flawless, perfect, and have no issues. Now, although there are a few black men who have stated they "Love" their white woman for her, her personality, etc, but they still have yet to speak positive about a black woman, it's like the saying "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all", and it seems a lot of black man have taken this route, but WHY? Are black women's attitudes that unbearable that a black man (which came from a black woman, is part of a black woman, and was rasied by a black woman) just don't want to be bothered with her?It seems that black men don't even feel black women are worth it, smh.

This whole "Interracial dating epidemic" has a lot of black women shaken up, and it's NOT, because their hating, jealous, or bitter about it. Black women are the most STRONGEST, SECURED, and INDEPENDENT species God blessed this world to have, it is rare that her issues are derived from jealousy, hate, or bitterness. Let me be the one to tell you exactly what a black women's issues are with black men dating white women, and I think I speak for 95% of black women. The issue IS THIS...When a "Black man" dates a white woman he changes, he's no longer a black man, he doesn't even identifies as coming from one, he talks down on black woman as though his own mother isn't black. Black men become "Uncle toms" when they date white woman. Instead of them allowing their culture to inspire, enlighten, and intrigue their white women so to gain her respect for the black woman, they put black woman down just to make their white woman feel superior, or secure. Despite what white woman say, BLACK WOMEN are their biggest threat when dating a black man, because they identify that their black man came from a black woman, it's natural for anyone to respect, and love where their mate, or spouse comes from. Every woman holds a man's mother to a higher level (Vise versa). Black men can sense when their white woman is feeling threatened, and insecure of a black woman, and THAT is why he feels the need to put black woman down, he's subliminally lifting his white woman up. He has to build her confidence against black woman, and make her feel as though a black woman has no chance in hell with him after he met her, sounds F'ed up right, smh.

Why do BLACK MEN have to say anything NEGATIVE about black woman at all, you'd think that the fact that they came from a black woman, and witnesses the struggles of a black woman they'd give her respect just on that alone, but Noooooo, black men gotta make a sista look like the worse type, he has to label her as "Damaged goods" KNOWING his father is 98% the cause of her emotional distress, but does he mention that, nope he just speaks highly about what she IS NOT. To each his own, people have a right to date whoever they want, and provide their opinions, but I think it makes a black man in particular look stupid, and ignorant when they talk bad about black women, Ijs.

Aww, but WAIT... hold up- BLACK WOMEN are dating white men too- so why is all the attention on black men that date white women when black women are also dating outside their race? I'll tell you why- Black women don't put black men down just cause she's dating a white man, you don't hear about too many "Black women" talking bad about a black man just cause she has a white man on her arms. Black women have MORE respect, and take pride in where they come from (Not all black women, but the majority) a black woman identifies her father as being black, and she's rasing black sons, why would she say anything negative about her OWN people just cause she has a preference to date a white man, she wouldn't. Black woman school their white men, they educate them so they too can see why her passion of respect for black men is soi great, she takes the time to put her white man up on game about her black culture, and demand that he (her white man) respects it, or she's walking, but Why can't black men be this way, why can't they represent us as black women in this same way? Because THIS small (type) population of black men are really the ones who're DAMAGED, insecure, don't love themselves, and are harboring secrets their too ashamed to admit. Maybe something happened to them as a child that mentally confused them, Idk, but SOMETHING went wrong at some point in their lives. A black man will never respect black women, or give them the credit they deserve until they LOVE THEMSELVES, he definitely can't love, and respect another race of humans when he doesn't love and respect where he comes from smh. Dating "this type" of black man is simply a WASTE OF TIME, he's NOT worth it, I unapologetically call him a BITCH NIGGA, and I personally have NO RESPECT for THAT type of person.

Oh, let me say this, in regards to my earlier statement that "black woman don't put black men down just cause their dating a white man"--now a friend of mine did bring to my attention that Halle Barry once did that a few years ago, and although, I never heard, nor seen the interview, I don't doubt it, I'm just saying it's very rare that black women do that- but with the exception of her (Halle), because I don't think she even identified as black for awhile so her statement doesn't really count- I'm talking about 100% BLACK WOMEN, how many black women have you heard talking down, degrading, and disrespecting the color of black men's skin just cause she's dating, engaged, or married to a white man? I'll wait..... FEW, because BLACK WOMAN have more respect, and passion for her culture, and BLACK MEN even though the majority of her pain was caused by a black man, she STILL has hope in her black men, and she's not going to jump on the ban wagon to put him down just to build her white man up.

So fellas, I'm talking to my BLACK MEN, as a black woman, I speak for all the BLACK WOMAN who might agree with me, just cause you choose to love who you love, you DO NOT have to put us down to build your relationship up, or try to make it solid. Leave us out of it, if you're init for love, or for whatever reason you gave, let it be just that. You DO NOT have to downplay us, we are completely different than WHITE WOMAN, whatever white woman have that intrigues you, attracted you, or caught your attention that you obviously didn't see in us then let THAT be the reason you're with her, and not, because "Black women have nappy hair, attitudes, and ashy skin", because Nigga YOU have nappy hair, ANGER ISSUES, plus an attitude, AND nappier ass hair, so just do what you want to do WITHOUT blaming a black woman for your actions, because you're really making YOURSELF look bad.

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