You can't turn a "Thot" into a housewife: It seems society has set the standard of wha

You've got to be out of your mind to think that woman who pose half naked on instagram can be trusted. Those are not the type of woman you take home to meet your mother, blah, blah, blah, bullshit! Really? Do you honestly believe that ish, and are you really making relationship decisions based on this "Judgment call"? Are you that influenced by society that you can't think for yourself? Come on, you guys can't be serious, smh. I mean, just cause someone has a strong opinion about something, doesn't make it valid, or true. Sometimes, people make accusations, and state opinions based on their "own" personal experiences, and usually if the advice is negative, and degrades another person that means the situation was ugly. I've heard all the stereotypes about "Thots" (Instagram attention seekers, woman that dress revealing, etc.), and despite the Judgement, I'm not buying it, nor am I going to jump on the "judging" people's band wagon just to make some insecure, bitter, and in his feelings asshole feel good about himself.

As a matter of fact I have my own opinion about this matter. Lets's compare shall we....

Now, we all know what "Wifey" material is said to be. Wifey is usually the "Good Girl", she's not on Instagram, she doesn't put her business in the streets, she has good credit, she's responsible, trustworthy, faithful, she cooks, clean, has several college degrees, never been to jail, has her own house (own it), car (own it), and works earning somewhere along the lines of about $50,000-$65,000 a year. Wifey material are the types of woman men look for, these woman are the ones guys are proud to take home to mommy.

Now, ""Thots" on the othe rhand (The whores, attention seekers, homewreckers, etc.) are said to be the complete opposite. "Thots" are categorized as the ones with bad credit, can't cook, don't cook, won't cook, gold diggers, unfaithful, can't be trusted, strippers, will sleep with the homie, convicted felons, don't work, no car, no house, have 2-3 different baby daddies, and all the negative, but are these statistics true? Let me keep it real! It is to my knowledge, observations, and understanding that "Thots" are 9 times out of 10 more sexier, strong minded, and more confident than the "wifey material" type of woman. The "wifey material" types are mediocre, average, less attractive, but decent. This difference makes a hudge difference as to which woman a man will choose to settle down with, Why?, because it is also to my observance that most men are intimidated, and threatened by an attractive woman. Attractive woman make "some" men feel insecure, simply because she knows who she is, what she wants, and she doesn't have to wait on anyone to get it, she's confident, because she's aware of her SEXY, and she walks in her truth.

Confident woman hardly ever go unnoticed. People always see her when she walks in a room, because she commands attention. She doesn't have to try to be seen, she just is. She stands out in a crowd. "Wifey" doesn't have that effect, therefore she's less of a threat to a man, and that makes him more comfortable, and secure. He's less likely to believe she's cheating on him, because he knows she's not really all that, and her options are minimal. He knows he wouldn't have to compete with anyone for her attention, because not too many men will even notice her. She blends in with the crowd, nothing about her makes her stand out, she has no sex appeal. When it comes down to the "Thot" though, he's uncomfortable, he doesn't really feel secure, because he knows she's wanted by many, and he's not secure enough for the challenge. He can't handle her, because she follows her own mind, has her own will, and is strong-minded, and that stresses him out. He can't tell her anything, it'll be harder for him to cheat, because he knows he risks loosing her if he gets caught, because she doesn't need him, and he knows she has men waiting in line to have her. Oh, he's very aware of her options.

Ya see, it's not that a man doesn't want to be with a "Thot", he just isn't secure. He knows he'd always have to compete with another man for her attention, and he doesn't want to go through that, because he'd also have to always be up on his game, and have his shit together, or else he could loose her to someone else more qualified, and up to her speed. The bottom line is, every woman has a little"Thot" in her, and just, because a woman is confident, attractive, and sexy, doesn't mean she's not worthy to take home to your mother. Some of your mothers were "Thots" themselves, and that;s how a lot of men got her, but that's none of my business (I'm just going to sip on this tea, and leave that one alone...for now, lol). My point is this, "Never judge a book by it;s cover", because some of those "Thots" you guys have passed on are the main ones who are going to ride with you, take care of you, and are the most loyal.

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